Sunday, March 25, 2007

डोर...A thread that ties two hearts

"यह होंसला...कैसे झुके....यह आरजू...कैसे रुके..
मंजील मुश्किल थो क्या...धुन्दला साहील थो क्या...तनहा यह दील थो क्या....हो...."

Dor, the movie takes you through a whirlwind of emotions, making you smile at the innocence of life and also scorn at the conservatism that still prevails within the rural hearts of this so called "super power of the future". It narrates the story of Zeenat, an independent woman who has struggled on every step in her life, but maintains all bonds of relationships to the best possible by her. The other woman who takes stronghold in this tale is that of Meera, a girl brought up by all the strict values and traditions that a Rajput woman is to be upholding. Both of them were living a dream until one day, the dreams are shattered when Meera's husband dies in Dubai who is supposedly murdered by Zeenat's husband. Zeenat's husband can be spared the "last mile" if a letter signed by the room-mate's wife, stating that she forgives the act committed by him, is handed over to the officials of Dubai, where he was working as a truck-driver before being sentenced to death. Now the responsibility of saving her love from the clutches of death forms the main part of the story. In any other bollywood movie, you would expect the usual melodrama of everyone crying and then the other woman, unable to bear the brunt of the first, ends up signing the letter and actually gets to be happy about it. what else do u expect to see in a bollywood movie?

Agreed that most this happens in DOR too, but without all the melodrama and the endless torrents that flow through the eyes of the leading ladies. it is just the sheer brilliance and the way the movie progresses that at no point of time you feel that you are disconnected from it. From the initial scenes of tender bonding between the two women and their respective spouses, to the indelible sisterhood between the two women that forms the end-notes of this surreal dream, the director's tale of this wistful journey is as fragile as it's powerful. this is evident in the sequence where the woman is transformed to a widow from a bright bride in days and opens her dead husband's suitcase is remarkable and leaves behind a distorted sense of disharmony. There are moments of unbearable distress in the film. the female bonding scenes between Ayesha Takia and her dead husband's grandmother are conveyed with a refreshing genuineness. the movie brings out sublime situations that belong only to a world that the director has created out of the finest threads of humanity and empathy.

But it's the sisterhood that is shared between Takia & Panag which sustains the narrative. Both the actresses have given outstanding performances, with Ayesha raking in more sympathy votes for the sheer poignancy of her character's position. Scenes such as the one where she falls unconscious when she hears the news of her husband's death over the only cell phone in the village, or the one where she innocently dances to "You're my sonia" playing on the radio, stay etched in our minds even after the film.

Conclusion: Nagesh Kukunoor comes up with an amazing world-class movie in Dor, which is very beautiful and uplifting. It is the kind of film that caters to the multiplex and the international audiences. I'm really grateful to the filmmakers for bringing the real women of India so up close and personal with us and making the people realise that the woman whose face is covered by a dupatta has a personality, a fire and love within her, which is often suppressed by the society. Nagesh Kukunoor’s Dor proudly represents our country in the circuit of world cinema.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Orkutaaya Namaha!



Boy is ORKUT on a roll or what! Looks like everyone who made it might as well take steroids to get rid of the high!! And why not, every one in India is just glued onto it...right from all the children in their high school to all the dudes(read duds) and women(read wuss') who think that they are as young as their sons or daughters in college! Jokes apart, this kind of obsession, that is makin these people addicted to the so called "social community", is turning people into maniacs who would not think twice before scamperin up a tree, only to gain acceptance in the so called virtual world created by some person who is on the lookout for his long-lost love. I mean..come on people, if u really wanna talk to some friends...why not hang out at a coffee place or go to the movies! and puhleezzz, dont give me the cliched phrase that -"we dont have the time", coz if u really didnt have the time...u wdnt be wastin it online...

I dont understand why people fail to realize that such a social community actually causes more harm than good. I believe that people should once in a while stop and ponder about why they are living such a precarious life and how they can improve it, rather than just gettin a homepage which is full of half-cooked lies and actually be proud about it. One question to all such people would be as to "why has this sudden need to put yourself into this virtual world full of pea-brained perverts who would jerk off the minute they saw a picture of a girl, make its way into your mind and how can you actually be smug about it?"...i just hate to ponder over that!!

By this time half of you are already grossed out by the graphic descriptions given so far and are on the verge of throwin up. I agree, and so is the shit in which all of us have suddenly been thrust into by these hyped up "communities". Some may add that "usually this is the influence of the western culture"...also sayin that if things like this existed, people would opt for these things. then id wanna ask them, if u didnt opt for somethin like this in the first place, then why would somethin like this exist in the first place and even if it did, it would have to be shut down, wouldnt it?? Also, ask any guy whether he had gone through a girl's profile he didnt know, for all the obvious reasons...and wat answer do you get??BINGO..!

And now comin to some of the tricks of the trade ---- u know javascript??cool, then you can increase your fan count by how-much ever you want!! Scrapbook low on scraps??? javascript would help u there too!! want a funky profile??? let someone else design wat u can call ur "virtual self"...disgusting!! I say out with all the nonsense. If you are really that much into marketing yourself, y not go and look for a career in it rather than wastin your whole life tryin to be someones "fan"...and not to forget the comparisions between people about how many scraps have they had and how much their fan count is and so on....

The point here is simple...i am not advocating the removal of all the online communities...they can serve better purposes...but the point here as usual is...how much are we good enuf to actually make use of the technology that is given to us...or better yet...mould it around us rather than we dying to scrape and stick around it...Always remember, once this glass door that holds the so called virtual world breaks, not only do u take the plunge, but the glass pieces will not make it easy. So my advice to all yer fellas out there is to stop clingin on to these sites...mind u..i am not askin u to ditch them completely, just try to refrain from further addiction and you will realise the brighter side of life!!

PEACE!

Note : my first two sentences in this blog start off in a very positive way which doesnt withstand in the entirety of the blog, my sarcasm knows no bounds ;)